"EVERY SNOW FLAKE IS DIFFERENT" ~ Dr. Green.

I pressed my face against the window pane as I waited for it to snow in the southern part of America. Hahahaha....

It rarely snows in this region, so it seemed the whole world joined me in awaiting the majestic fall of the snow. It started with a trickle and I watched in awe as every tiny little bit of flake fell.

Sharing tea and brownies with friends from different parts of the world, we chatted excitedly about the snow, politics, food, some more politics and a lot more about snow in different parts of the world. Anyway, somehow the evening ended with some more talk on snow, snow, and snow...#grins.

Looking out the window, we saw the white horizon and couldn't resist the urge to make a snow man. Lol. Snowman in Alabama? I laugh again. Anyways, we set out on the snow and it was indeed a beautiful time for all of us.

Now, my question is; who ever says there's no God? Can't you see the beauty He's created in the galaxies, on earth, the star, the moon, the seas, the sky, the trees, birds, and the whole universe. Just like everyone's palm is different, it is amazing to know that every snow flake is different. No snow flake is the same.
Wow! Please can science explain this miracle? If you say there's no God, please explain to me how the earth, the galaxies, the snow came to be? What science can fathom this?

Today's Christmas, again...

Let’s Chat with Marianna...?

Have you ever imagined a Christmas in a middle of a new year, in the first week of January? Well, that is the tale in Ukraine! Marianna Mykhaylyuk, an international student at the Troy University, Alabama, USA in an exclusive interview shares her culture with the rest of the world.

Marianna is from Lviv in Ukraine, and she explains that Ukrainian calendar is an orthodox kind, hence, many of the Greek Catholics celebrate Christmas on the 7th of January. Interestingly, this celebration lasts for 3days. Hmmmm...plenty of food, fun and singing. Hahahahahaha...

 

In celebrating Christmas, twelve different kinds of dishes are prepared, representing the 12months of the year as Ukrainians believe in eating healthy and staying healthy. Marianna tells us that in Ukraine, it is expected that one should try a new kind of meal every month. Consequently, when you try the twelve different kinds of dishes on Christmas day, you will be healthy and wealthy all year long. Also, as Orthodox Christians, they believe the 12dishes is remembering the twelve disciples of  Jesus Christ. all the ingredients of the 12 dishes on the Christmas eve table should come from water and earth- that is why it is mainly vegetables, fruits and fish.

Ukrainians cherish Christmas Eve in a special way. The celebration is centered around the traditional Christmas Eve Holy Supper which begins when the first star appears in the eastern sky. It is the children's job to look for the first star.

It is not surprising that there are also two New Year’s Eves in Lviv. The first is celebrated on December 31st/January 1st, and the second, called Old New Year, or St. Basil’s Day, is celebrated on the night of 13th/14th January. Children go from house to house again, singing. But this time instead of kolyadky, the children sing schedrivky (from the word schedry – “generous”). They sprinkle the floors of their neighbors with grain and wish their hosts joy and prosperity for the New Year.

 

 

 

Winter holidays last a month in Ukraine. Many Lviv locals refer to the period from December 19th to January 19th as “Ukrainian Ramadan.”  So, if you are a businessman  with plans to travel to Ukraine, remember these dates. #grins

When asked what is most remarkable about Ukraine during this period, Marianna says, "we are very generous in celebration - the Christmas itself we celebrate for three days. So I would encourage people to come for Christmas in Ukraine because they may experience the celebration of Christmas twice in one year."

Wow!!! Interesting insight about two same kind of celebrations in one year. LOl

So to all Ukrainians, we say Веселого Різдва!

 

 

"Winnie was the Love of my life," ~Nelson Mandela.

                                                                  "Winnie was the Love of my life," ~Nelson Mandela.

Excerpt from Madiba's Journal (Imagined)

Victor Verster Prison.

Feb., 11, 1990

It was a day joy for me and my family as news spread of my release. Words could not describe the feeling, yet I knew my release did not only mean victory rather it proved the need for more work to be done in ensuring there is absolute equality in SA, without violence. Now that I think on this things, I wonder what Winnie has been up to. Oh! I love that woman. I chuckled, knowing I would see my Winnie tonight. I laughed.

Wow! I miss my wife. I sighed.

Seeing Winnie did things to my body that I thought were in fact dead. I haven't touched my wife for 27 years. The touch was heavenly.

After our first conjugal moment ( you know what I mean. Lol), and two beautiful girls as products of our reckless conjugal moments without shame and hold backs, I still find Winnie irresistible. And this is one of those moments when I can't get my hands off her. Yet we must be civil. And what exactly does that even mean? All I really want is a moment with my wife, my Winnie. I don't care what the world thinks. Please would the world let us be man and wife, for this moment at least? Alas, they won't.

I held my wife, we smiled looking into each other's eyes hopeful of what the night holds.

"No physical contact", the prison warder said.

Winnie gave him a look that removed every doubt in the warder's mind that neither of us needed his permission to do whatever we pleased.

Hear, this common ordinary jail guard who's had all the conjugal moments he wants with whoever telling me not to touch, not to touch my wife? Who made that a law? Please tell me...Pssst!

Well, we walked out of that place that day happy and glad to be man and wife again. I met Winnie young,  but my time in prison and life has definitely toughened my lady. Winnie was nothing like Evelyn, Evelyn Mase was feeble, naïve and fearful.

Now I look back with no regrets. I wonder, what would have become of me and SA if I'd have been free and if I had stuck to my first marriage and not married Winnie? But then again, I do not promote polygamy, I support freedom. Freedom for my people, equality for all, freedom for South Africa. That is my dream...

MY AFFAIR WITH NELSON MANDELA

With a smile to capture the heart of the unsuspecting blood like me, he swept me off  my feet, with his charm and infectious smile. Though he is 95 years old, it feels like he's older than that. I feel like I've known him all my life. Technically, that's true. I've known him all my life. He's practically 4 times my age, yet I loved him. When I met him, I completely fell in love with his persona, achievements and the personal moments we shared.

I remember my Mum warning about loving men old enough to be my father, worse even, in Nelson's case, he was old enough to be my grandfather. But then, I did not care. He had the influence and affluence in South Africa, he had the money and I could drive the best of Mercedes I wanted. I could live in Cape Town with the rest of the family, and enjoy the paparazzi that came with being a part of Nelson Mandela 's life.

Now I look back at how he arrived at been this great, I do not regret our meeting. He completely changed the history of South Africa and forever, the world would remain grateful.  South Africa and Apartheid; saved from the monster racial segregation... No wonder my research papers always end up having a line or two about South Africa and apartheid. Thank God for Nelson.

 I'm sure you know I love you Nelson, but even more because of who you are: you are selfless. Staying in prison for almost half your life for the sake of others, running away from an arranged marriage to be with the one you love and making wise decisions to set South Africa on high pedestal as far as international politics is concerned. Yes, people may enthuse that you, the great Iroko tree has fallen but I am glad the Almighty created a being like you. For making a difference in the world, I celebrate your life and do not mourn your demise. Though it is all a dream that we had something special but I am glad I met you personally through the eyes of the world.

 One lesson learnt from the life of Nelson, he made a difference in the world (for even the supposedly super power USA president to decide to visit South Africa to pay respects), when you leave this earth what impact would you have made on the world? #FoodForThought

I AM GAY...AN OPEN SECRET!

AM I GAY?

I sat by the pool, lost in thought as I stared without seeing at the sky. It was cold and I wondered for the umpteenth time what I was doing out in the cold. Was it really necessary for me to stay by the pool?  Actually my interest was beyond the busy blue water, it had more to do with my fantasy which in my mind's eye was indeed magnificent. Only if you could get a peep into my heart...LOl.

I chuckled.

I picked up the Francene Rivers' Redeeming Love I was reading and flipped to the page I stopped to continue reading.

"Hey" someone said.

I pushed my glasses off my nose, looked up and saw this ravishing beautiful girl. I swallowed quickly, and swiftly reminded myself that I must not stare.

 I smiled and muttered a "Hi".

 
"Do you Mind?", she asked gesturing to an empty seat by my side.
 

"Of course, please sit ", I offered.

"My name's Lisa Lee", she introduced herself.

 
Before I knew it, we spent 3hours in the cold talking about sweet nothing. She was a very likable person and I liked her already. Somehow I enjoyed our chat and though it was cold none of us showed any sign of being uncomfortable especially with the harsh weather blowing abundantly on our faces.

Lisa Lee turned and stared at me intensely. I looked up and our eyes locked. For a moment I did not want to believe that look was directed at me, adjusting myself mentally I decided to give both of us the benefit of doubt so I pretended like I did not notice anything.

"What's your burst Size?", Lisa Lee asked me.

Surprised, I looked at her abruptly. "Excuse me?"

She whispered the question again and it dawned on me where the discussion was headed.

OMG!!

Did she think our little comfortable chit chat happened because I was gay?

I thought about what could have triggered such, but could not find an answer.

On my bed that night, I reminisced about our discussion. I don't have to tell you what ensued between us but now it's pretty clear that there's some craziness in the air.

Now, my question is why would you look around you and decide you want marry or date someone of the same sex as you? Please what's the bait? Let's share experiences. I wait to hear your story.

STELLA DAMASUS, DIVA TURNS PREACHER?

Let’s Chat with Stella Damasus...?

Definitely a lady 'extraordinaire', Stella Damasus is one woman that amazes me and I must confess I am tripped by her life style. I love Stella Damasus, scorn me all you want but I have made my confessions. Lol. Now, back to the business of the day, Stella Damasus is a woman of many colors, she is a mother, prominent and skillful actress, singer, Producer, Educator, Humanitarian, Lover of God, TV host, CEO of SDA Productions, Founder of the Stella Damasus Arts Foundation and ADIVA, co-founder of Index Two Studios, writer (You need to visit her website if you haven't seen it), and many more. She is funny, easy going and indeed a good influence to our world.

 

When asked how she balances being a mother first of all, being all the plenty things she is and been a celebrity, Stella Damasus has this to say, "Being a mother comes before being a celebrity and CEO. Everyone knows my children are my life and they always come first, so I make sure that whatever appearance I have to make as a celebrity or whatever work I have to do as a CEO doesn't keep me away from home for too long. My children are growing up and they need me with them more now than ever. So, I have learnt to prioritize and delegate. If I know making an appearance at that award show or event isn't that important I wouldn't go and if I know that someone else can sort out that issue in the office then I'll pass it on to them to deal with. I thank God for my management and legal team, they make my work much easier. I only leave my house or travel when it's absolutely necessary, but we all know I am not super human so all the strength and wisdom I need to balance out my life comes from God".

 

Her favorite books are the Bible, "Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren and "Acting in Film" by Michael Caine. And for fun, Stella used to play badminton but not anymore but now she says fun for her means hanging out with her family. 

This babe I am personally proud of established Stella Damasus Archives Production Ltd with the vision of creating a production company that would develop and showcase quality Nigerian content for Television, Radio, New Media, Cinema and Live Events to global standards in the most innovative way. Through the company she did the first season of Changing Lives on the Stella Damasus show. It was shown in a few Nigerian Television shows and there are some episodes on her YouTube page. The Stella Damasus Arts Foundation is a non-profit organization set up to provide economic, intellectual and emotional support to the society, using the arts as its primary tool. Their flagship program is a 3 months, FREE Arts training course which is designed to give aspiring actors and singers access to proper acting and vocal training which they would not otherwise be able to afford to pay for. All their facilitators are volunteers who are experienced and highly skilled professionals in music and drama.

 

Amazed at how Stella manages to stay true, I ask her this; I know you as a Christian, how do you consistently maintain the fear of God in the midst of raging trends associated with fame? What’s your secret to worship? And this is what she replies; "I have never really been a person that follows trend and I honestly never really aspired for fame, I aspired for success, and I never conformed. I maintain the fear of God by reminding myself that I want to make heaven. Anyone who has that in mind will sit tight and maintain their relationship with God. With heaven in mind, you would constantly remind yourself that you can't afford to stray or make a mistake and stumble into sin. But we are all human and if we find ourselves in a bad situation, we should always go back to God. He is ever ready to forgive us and accept us back again. My secret to worship is using every part of me to glorify his name and honor him. In doing that, I constantly remember that it's all about him. It's important to worship God in spirit and in truth, not caring who is around you, knowing that it's all about him. Worshipping is not just about singing. It's  about your life and praise".

And giving her inspiring message, Stella says; "Stay true to you. No matter what area you find yourself in life. Don't change who you are and what you believe in just to please someone else. The only people you should aim to please are yourself and God. Put God first in all that you do and you would be amazed how things would work out for you. Believe in yourself and your dreams, no one else can do that for you. Also, greatness is not measured by how much you have or how famous you are. True greatness is about identifying your purpose in life and using it to affect the lives of other people positively". 

 

Stella Damasus' favorite quotes are "It's Not Who People Say You Are, It's Who GOD Says You Are" and "God does not call the qualified, he qualifies the called"

 

Wow!!!! Catch the Stella Damasus groove people. (LOl). I don't know about you, but I am totally amazed!

 

YOUNG CEO WINS 5MILLION NAIRA, A BRAND NEW CAR AND GETS OTHER FREEBIES!

Let’s Chat...?

You've got to meet this bundle of energy  and surprises.
 

Iroghama Ogbeifun is from Benin City, Edo state, the first girl and second child in a family of seven children, with a first degree (BSc) in Biology and Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Boston and an MSc in Public Health and Health Promotion from Brunel University London. In 2011, she received an Eagle Award by Quantum Projects for Youth and Entrepreneurship. She is the CEO of Hairven,  manufacturers of products for the care of hair extensions and natural hair. When asked about her company she says, "We are passionate about teaching women how to have healthy hair whether you have relaxed hair, natural hair, coloured hair or bleached hair, at Hairven we believe you can have long, strong, healthy hair. And we are dedicated to providing products and hair regimens to help women achieve this. We are also constantly trying to develop innovative hair products that will fill needs of women in this environment. Right now we have 2 hair product ranges: our introductory range 'The weave care range which comprises of Shampoo, conditioner, serum and leave in conditioner' and 'The Healthy Hair range which comprises of Shampoo, conditioners, protein treatment, detangling leave-in mist, tea tree and castor oil".

 

Iro as she is fondly called saw a need in the industry and came up with a concept to meet that need. Also, through the HAIRVEN Representative program, women from all walks of life can distribute their weave care products and learn how to treat weaves so as to serve as an additional stream of income. They have doctors, students and house wives currently distributing their products.

She says that the book that has influenced her life the most is Ben Carson's Gifted Hands, because it inspired her at such a young age and made her believe she could be whoever she wanted to be as long as  she believes and works hard to achieve it.

It is no wonder she is the winner of The Next Titan Reality TV Show, as she showed  hard work and perseverance for the 13week period.

When asked if she played any sport, she laughed and replied " Hahahahahahha. Well, I was an active athlete throughout my life up until final year in university. Nowadays I try to participate in dance fitness classes and aerobics. Fun for me is curled up on my sofa watching TV, preferably crime inclined series or reading crime novels. I also love going to the cinema. I like the popcorn"

Iro's favourite quote is "Don't sit down and wait for the opportunities to come, go out and make those opportunities"

In giving her winning formula, Iro advices to the youth to "first of dream, and dream big. After you have dreamt up your idea, take action. Start from where you can start and build upon that. You don't need all the money in the world so don't let the absence of it keep you from achieving your goals or even starting. If you decide that entrepreneurship is not for you and you would prefer to carve a career path, then do it with all gusto. Set yourself apart with your work ethics, your values and most importantly, your integrity. It might seem like the longer road, but the reward ahead would be priceless. Be a big dreamer but most importantly be an even bigger doer! It is okay to dream big, and not focus on the supposed impossibilities of your dream, just start from where you are, start small and you will surely grow! Stay Focused and most importantly BELIEVE in you and your idea!"

You've heard it all from Iro, so simply believe in yourself.  
For more enquiries about HAIRVEN: www.myhairven.com, email:info@myhairven.com or call 07063443434/08067127213

 

 

 

 

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11YEAR OLDS GET ME CRYING...You've got to watch these!



Arixsandra Lambato

Jotta

Asanda Jerzile

If you love music, then you will understand why I teared.
Its totally amazing that these 11year olds can so passionate about music to understand the emotional technicality of singing. I simply cried watching them sing.

I am certain you will be glad you saw these videos, its a click away! So please watch them.

Awww! Wow! was all I could utter for a long while...

I just love them.

Click: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dbJZ5HRD7UM to watch Jotta
Click: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rD23pVdBoig to watch Arixsandra Lambato
Click: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dnvQ3HX0-pAto watch Asanda Jerzile

The world according to Mac-Jane: PAINS THROUGH THE NIGHT Arrrgghhhh!!!! I screamed ...

The world according to Mac-Jane: PAINS THROUGH THE NIGHT Arrrgghhhh!!!! I screamed ...: PAINS THROUGH THE NIGHT   Arrrgghhhh!!!! I screamed again, as the excruciating pain sliced through my tummy. Hugging my tiny bundle, I c...

PAINS THROUGH THE NIGHT

Arrrgghhhh!!!! I screamed again, as the excruciating pain sliced through my tummy. Hugging my tiny bundle, I clutched my tummy hoping against hope that the pain will stop.

Is it that time of the month Lee? Vivian asked me.

With eyes squeezed shut, and holding my tummy as tears streamed down my usually peaceful face without reservation, I shook my head indicating that it was not menstrual pain.

'Oh my God, help me!' I wailed.

You are probably wondering what this shebang is all about, well maybe I better start the story from the very beginning. Three years ago I met this guy, he was not  anything I wanted in a man. And like the proverbial blind love, I fell madly in love with him. He was a drug addict, a passionate alcoholic, and he had raised his hand to hit me once, yet I was overcome by emotions. I knew I should not marry him, yet I felt he needed me. I was his missing rib, I believed.


We got married, and I became pregnant immediately and had a boy and a girl. And then, the avalanche of evil came tumbling down in my already crooked destiny. I got home from work one day and caught my husband raping my daughter, I mean, our two year daughter! Oh my! Was I in shock! And when I confronted him, it only aggravated the matter as he starting hitting me and over time, started having anal sex with his son too.  It became routine for my husband to abuse me and my children physically and otherwise. I felt helpless because I felt I saw the warning signs but  ignored all of them.

I don't know what to do, who do I talk to? I am in pain, not only from heart ache as my innocent children are also suffering from my reckless decision. They were diagnosed yesterday to have chlamydia, and even if my husband does not kill me soon, what I am suffering from will eventually kill me. Obviously, my husband has been sleeping with other people because as I write this in my journal, I am HIV positive, advanced stage...

First Real blogging

I am back and better!!!!!!!
Yippee!
watch out for new exciting trends...
#winks